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Post by Champ on Oct 8, 2008 12:10:08 GMT -5
Yup it's true. It's been 3 weeks since the breakup. The day before she dropped me she was telling me how much she loved me and couldn't wait to see me and have sex the next time we saw eachother. The very next night she dumps me because she says I'm mentally unstable. Ok, I may be mentally unstable but don't blow up my fuckin ego like I have a girl who will love me and support me no matter what and dump me the next night, OVER THE PHONE........AFTER a YEAR AND A HALF. I'm not going to whine about this because I hate when people do that but for those of you looking for the right chick. Fuck that, there is no right chick. In 2 weeks I'll be at a titty bar for a bachelor party. I'll be honest with you, as fucked up and hurt as I was, I'm actually enjoying life better single. But what a mind fuck man. I totally didn't see that coming and looking back I still didn't see it coming. It was the coldest breakup I've ever experienced because we both agreed that we loved eachother more than anyone we've ever been with. We were talking about moving in together and getting married in a few years. But like I said, ironically after I got over the sickening depression part of it, I hooked myself up in a suit and got a lot of lady compliments at my guitarist's wedding(which my ex skipped out on 9 days early. That's fucked up too). But check out the pimp nigga in the suit! This is totally out of my element too  |
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Post by Naitch on Oct 8, 2008 12:44:03 GMT -5
I have to disagree on the right chick thing. A year ago I would have agreed. But apparently she was one callous girl. I hate it when girls lead you on like that. Its not right. You aren't that mentally unstable from what I can tell man. You have your issues, I have my issues, MS has his, etc etc. We all got issues. Everyone in the world. But fuck man, if the Pope could be a Nazi before being a Pope we all got hope.
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Post by Snitskyman2016 on Oct 8, 2008 18:59:28 GMT -5
She sounds unstable! She did this to champ last winter too. Most women have a pretty good idea what they want and I feel she led Champ on from what hes saying.
I have to take issue with you Naitch, I don't have any issues just like my pal Dolph Ziggler.
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Post by Naitch on Oct 9, 2008 6:09:37 GMT -5
She sounds unstable! She did this to champ last winter too. Most women have a pretty good idea what they want and I feel she led Champ on from what hes saying. I have to take issue with you Naitch, I don't have any issues just like my pal Dolph Ziggler. I didn't know she did that. Its starting to sound like commitment issues, like shes afraid to move in with someone or get married. Maybe a shitty ex or just plain scared. Of course you don't have any problems SM, you are of course the greatest muthafucka ever born! |
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Post by Champ on Oct 10, 2008 12:06:49 GMT -5
I'm simply just jaded now. We have to exchange our shit back next week and I'm not looking forward to that. pregnant doges be crazy
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Post by GLF on Oct 10, 2008 15:28:13 GMT -5
Champ it looks like you should be in the Sopranos or something in that picture haha.
Im sure the exchanging shit back will be really uncomfortable, its just one of those times were you will probably be jaded throughout the whole time of doing it then wonder about what you and she said and did for a while afterwards.
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Post by Champ on Oct 10, 2008 16:02:09 GMT -5
I'm just going to be relieved when it's over. The worst anxiety for me is the waiting period. I have to record with my band this weekend and I have to try my best to not let the thought of seeing her next week distract me. If anything, the recording will be good for me. But if I wasn't recording I'd do it this weekend and get it over with.
EDIT: Right after I typed that(above) I called her and told her that I'm bringing the clothes to her tonight before I go to the studio. We're just doing drum sound check tonight which I can show up any time I want for. Tomorrow and Sunday I have to be a the studio all day. I just can't wait to get this over with(the ex). I have to get it out of the way tonight and then go have a beer with my drummer. I'll feel so much better and I'll be more focused on the recording
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Post by Snitskyman2016 on Oct 10, 2008 17:15:56 GMT -5
Put a Cat's head in with her stuff so you get a clean break this time!
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Post by Champ on Oct 11, 2008 3:56:40 GMT -5
Dude, she said some shit that made me FLIP and I had every right to.
First she wouldn't agree to meet with me for 5 minutes and told me to drop the clothes off with her roommates. I said, NO not this time, you broke up with me over the phone when things were supposed to be peachy and I haven't seen you since. I NEED this closure. You became a completely different person and I need to look you in the eyes and see what the hell is going on in order for me to get some closure. She said why can't we do it next week. I said because I'll be in the studio next week. Then she said, how about the week after that. So I said, GIVE ME 5 FUCKIN MINUTES! YOU OWE ME THAT AFTER WHAT YOU PUT ME THROUGH!(yelling this time). She's like, why are you getting so mad and why do you need to see me so bad?! I said, I DESERVE the closure and I can't wait anymore. It's eating me up and I want to finally see you face to face so I can finally move on with my life. So this is where she FUCKED up. She said, why do you want to see me so bad so you can stare at me for a minute and then go home and cry about it?
Dudes, I FLIPPED. I said, "you are a cold fuckin little girl! You got some fuckin nerve talking to me like that after everything we've been through and everything you put me through. Newsflash, I DON'T want you back! My life is BETTER without you and if you think I'm going to sit home and cry about it, I'm actually going to go home and enjoy the fact that you aren't in my life anymore because my life is so much easier without you." After that she said, "I can't talk about this right now, I'm in the nail salon and I have laundry to do because I work all week." I had to put her in her place after these arrogant fuckin comments. So finally I said, you know what, I will go drop your clothes off with your roommates and come home realizing how low your character is that you couldn't give me 5 minutes after all you've put me through. You're fuckin wrong! Bye.
So it turns out I was 10 minutes away and I called her and said, I'm just letting you know I'll be there in 10 minutes. Then she changes her tune and says, I'll meet you outside. So I said, oh you're going to give me a few minutes face to face? It's about fuckin time. That's ALL I asked for. I got there and I totally did a 180. I showed up with a huge smile on my face, hugged her and said, "you know, I loved you so much. I was going to marry you. It's really a shame. Then I kissed her on her neck and she turned around and started wiping tears off her face. After that, I thought, GOOD!!!! LOL Immature? Maybe, but she deserves to feel some pain. Fuck her. No more Mr. Nice Champ. I'm fuckin done being good to people who don't appreciate it. Aside from king, I've never met any of you guys face to face and you guys are more consistent as friends than some of the fuckheads I have to deal with around here. I'm done being nice to those who don't appraciate. She sparked a nasty bone in my body and that bone isn't my cock. Or is it? lol
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Post by Snitskyman2016 on Oct 11, 2008 7:21:57 GMT -5
I called her and said, I'm just letting you know I'll be there in 10 minutes. Then she changes her tune and says, I'll meet you outside. So I said, oh you're going to give me a few minutes face to face? It's about fuckin time. That's ALL I asked for. I got there and I totally did a 180. I showed up with a huge smile on my face, hugged her and said, "you know, I loved you so much. I was going to marry you. It's really a shame. Then I kissed her on her neck and she turned around and started wiping tears off her face. After that, I thought, GOOD!!!! LOL Immature? Maybe, but she deserves to feel some pain.
That was really cerebral dude! I am impressed! I am taken aback!
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Post by Velkontés on Oct 11, 2008 9:45:10 GMT -5
I got there and I totally did a 180. I showed up with a huge smile on my face, hugged her and said, "you know, I loved you so much. I was going to marry you. It's really a shame. Then I kissed her on her neck and she turned around and started wiping tears off her face. After that, I thought, GOOD!!!! LOL Immature? Maybe, but she deserves to feel some pain. Fuck her. I agree with SM, that was tremendous. Immature? Nah, it's natural to get mad and say things in the heat of the moment. Wouldn't be human otherwise. It's not as though you set fire to her house or anything. Sounds like you handled things about as well as could be expected, really. Mentally unstable? Sounds like she's looking for a reason. Either that or she's projecting - who tells someone they love them and then dump them the next day? She sounds like a commitmentphobic, woke up in the middle of the night thinking "what have I got myself into!!!" but instead of being honest with you she had to make it your fault with that "mentally unstable" bs. You've made your point, now move on and don't give her a second thought. Nice suit, btw  Also, ahh, irony... lol Also, I disagree with the "The" in that sentence. You're just setting yourself up for a world of disappointment if you're looking for "the" right chick. There's "a" right chick, and plenty of them. And by "right" I don't mean "perfect", because nobody's perfect. Everyone's an asshole. Except Snitskyman, obviously. |
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Post by Champ on Oct 11, 2008 13:28:09 GMT -5
Yeah it's time to move on but I had an AWFUL dream last night. First of all I was on a prescription of klonopin after the breakup. It's a sedative for bad anxiety or traumatic experiences. I ran out 2 days ago and I think I'm going through withdrawal now because last night I started feeling sick like I had the flu. Then I went to sleep and I was waking up sweating on and off. So as the night went on and I finally fell asleep for a while I had a dream it was the day my grandmother passed away again(she died a little over a month ago). That day, after we followed the hearse to the grave site we went out to eat afterwards.
Now the dream I had my ex and my ex BEFORE her were both with us. Then I vividly remember sitting at the table and they both disappeared for a while. In the dream the restaurant had a seperate lounge/bar room. So I find them in there and they are both hanging out with 2 black dudes. I asked when they were coming back up and then after they came back up, they said the black dudes were getting mad because I was giving them weird looks. I said, OF COURSE, my grandmother just passed and you guys are humiliating me! Then I stormed out of the place by myself and for some reason I ran into these two wise ass guido type guys and I have no idea why but one of them tried shooting me with a fire extinguisher. I was so mad I punched him in the face and blood shot out of his nose and then I scared the shit out of his friend.
This dream was so fucked up and weird. Now I'm feeling withdrawals and I'm shaking. I can never catch a fuckin break with this shit. I never should have gotten as many sedatives as prescribed
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Post by Snitskyman2016 on Oct 11, 2008 13:54:46 GMT -5
She said, why do you want to see me so bad so you can stare at me for a minute and then go home and cry about it?
That is messed up, really. I am angry with her.
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Post by Champ on Oct 11, 2008 13:59:19 GMT -5
That's when I told her I don't want her back and that my life is better and easier since she's not involved in it anymore. I said it in an Edge type of way too. so I made no bones about the fact that pissed me the FUCK off. It was arrogant, ignorant, and ungrateful
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Post by MasterSnit on Oct 11, 2008 14:04:11 GMT -5
Whatever her reasoning was for wanting to break up, it sounds as though she didn't go about it very well. If you guys were on such good terms then the least she could have done was talk to you face to face and fully explain her feelings. It sounds like you dealt with it in a good manner yourself though, Champ. You told her exactly how you felt and you have your closure and the satisfaction of knowing you conducted yourself respectfully and bravely in a difficult situation. You do look like a Soprano in that pic, though, lol. Your like Tony's other son. You can always have her whacked if you feel like it. |
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